What if I fail? The mindset shift that will change how you set goals. failure goals Dec 17, 2024

It’s that time of year again—goal season! You’re reflecting on this past year, looking ahead to the next, and dreaming of what you and your dog can achieve together. But for some handlers, there’s an uncomfortable question lingering in the back of their minds: What if...

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Embrace your villain era. goals grit Dec 10, 2024

If you’ve spent any time on social media lately, you might have seen the phrase “villain era” floating around. It’s trendy, it’s cheeky, and—most importantly—it’s a reminder that maybe, just maybe, it’s time to put yourself first for...

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Head into '25 with a clean slate. dogged goals Dec 03, 2024

As the end of the year approaches, it’s natural to start thinking about what’s next. For many of us, that means setting new goals and dreaming about what we want to accomplish in the coming year. But before you dive into planning, there’s a crucial step you can’t skip:...

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Embracing your most positive identity. Nov 26, 2024

Confidence is one of those things everyone wants, but few of us know how to build. We hear advice about staying positive, using affirmations, and focusing on our strengths, but sometimes it feels... flat. That’s where cultivating a positive handler identity comes in. It’s...

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Consistency is the secret sauce. Nov 19, 2024

When it comes to dog training (and honestly, life in general), I see a common struggle: we set big goals, dive in with enthusiasm, and then hit a wall when progress feels slow. Sound familiar? It’s easy to get frustrated and think, “Why am I not seeing results?” Here’s the...

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Must be present to win. handler skills mental skills Nov 12, 2024

I'm sure you know the saying, "Must be present to win." To most of us, it means that if we want to win that raffle item, we'd better stick around until the end of the day. But lately, I've had another perspective on this common phrase - that we as handlers must be in the present moment in...

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Confidence is learnable. confidence membership Nov 05, 2024

Confidence is on my mind these days. In part because the membership is working on developing confidence this month, and in part because I am really obsessed with giving my young dog confidence every time we train. (I have Moxie to thank for the latter and my coaching clients...

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Introducing the "celebration session" celebration dog training Oct 29, 2024

In dog sports, it's easy to get caught up in striving for the next big goal—new titles, clean runs, more Qs. But sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do for both our dogs and ourselves is to slow down, take a breath, and celebrate how far we’ve come. Enter the...

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Just the facts. bouncing back evidence Oct 22, 2024

In my coaching calls, we talk a LOT about "evidence." Collecting it, looking for it, reviewing it. Evidence is our way of looking at just the facts - sometimes even statistics - of what's really happening in our performances without the weight of emotion.

When you think about it,...

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Quality over quantity dog training plan Oct 08, 2024

We spend so much time attending class, taking seminars, doing online lessons, and listening to experts, but have you ever paused to create a true training plan for yourself and your dog? It seems like we are so busy going from lesson to lesson without first identifying...

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Make every run perfect mindset visualization Oct 01, 2024

Every athlete in every sport makes mistakes - even the most elite. After all, we are fallible, imperfect creatures trying to do some really hard stuff consistently alongside a partner with their own agenda. Mistakes are going to happen.

 

I've talked about the ache of wishing for a...

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Better ways to measure progress. goals measure Sep 17, 2024

On a coaching call the other day, I said something that was an "Ah-ha" moment for both of us: "I believe that you are focusing on your process goals, but I think you're measuring by outcomes."

 

The handler agreed, and we went on to unpack how this was showing up and...

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