When I talk to handlers, comparison often comes up in some form or another - which is why I talk about it as much as I do, I suppose. This weekend, while giving a seminar, another possible cause of comparison surfaced: We look to others when we don't have a good way of measuring our own...
My social media post for today was "Don't forget to sing when you win." It's a line from the opening song in the show "Welcome to Wrexham."*
I LOVE this reminder. At some point, nearly every coaching call includes interrupting my clients to celebrate...
Lately, the comparison gremlins have been popping up in interesting - and annoying - ways. Sometimes they tell me I'm not succeeding at work; other times, I should be doing more with my dogs. Just yesterday, Facebook suggested a friend because of mutual connections, and I thought, "What...
This week as many of my friends head west to Tulsa for the agility National, I can't help but feel a bit jealous. Mind you, I didn't try to qualify, I just wish I were going - haha.
Watching someone else achieve something you also want can trigger all sorts of feelings. Are you wildly happy for...